- Place egg whites and sugar in a bowl that fits over a saucepan well. 
- Add water to the saucepan and bring the water to a boil, be sure the water does not touch the bottom of the bowl. 
- Heat the egg whites and sugar until they are hot, the sugar is melted and smooth, not gritty. 
- Place the mixture in the bowl of a mixer, beat over medium-high until the mixture is no longer hot and it's stiff and shiny. This takes about 10 minutes. 
- Add in butter one tablespoon at a time beating on medium-high until it's all incorporated and continue mixing until it's a smooth frosting, this takes about 5 minutes. 
- Mix in vanilla.